opinions ahead, im gonna word this as gently as possible
- don't follow if you're a terf, radfem, homophobe, biphobe, transphobe etc
- don't follow if you actively take part in tucute vs transmed discourse. i have my own reasons for this, and have issues with both sides of the "debate". both sides grossly misunderstand each other and the fighting is pointless. my views: you dont need a lot of dysphoria or to transition to be trans. respect people's gender identity, don't be an asshole, but also be reasonable. there is a line between gender and your personality, and if you base your entire personality and identity off of your gender then, well, that could be kind of unhealthy
- neutral on ace discourse, as i am not ace i don't think i have a right to say if they are or aren't lgbt. if an ace person wants to identify as lgbt then thats perfectly fine, but if they dont thats also fine.
- youre allowed to be gnc and cis or gnc and trans. gender roles are harmful and perpetuating the belief that it's not normal to be gnc regardless of your gender alignment is bad. gender roles do not dictate gender. express yourself however you want